Decide to change. Reset, re-start and re-live your life.

When the going gets tougher, it’s time for you to re-look at the bigger picture of your life’s directions just like watching a movie about yourself. You know that living this life does not come with a book giving you answers or what to do next. Les Brown said that when you are going through tough times, there is something that you must learn from it. The tough time with pass once you have learned a lesson. We all make mistakes. Life is trial and error because we never spend time with ourselves to find our strength and our weaknesses, to understand how our thoughts and emotions work, to realize that we are all here for a purpose.

Don’t get disheartened when tough times hit you. Take it that there is something that you must learn. Tough times could be financial, could be your relationship, or your health or things are not really going your way. It’s easier to say, don’t give up but I love the way Les Brown says it, “It’s not over until I win”. Get those words sink into your brains deeply and shout it to yourself. Trust me, you will be motivated and do it each time when you are feeling down due to the issues that you are facing in life.

I remember asking my boss a question, “How can you take so much of stress with this job, I would have quit?” He simply answered, “I want to see how much more stress that I can take”. Today, he is a CEO of a company. It is like he’s saying, “It’s not over until I win”. I didn’t really think deeply about the answer he gave me then, until I was going thru tough times myself. I ended up in financial distress after being a millionaire for about three years. It was my the most difficult time of my life with so much commitments and a family relying solely on me. I told myself, it’s not over until I win.

I did learn my lesson. It was all worth it. You become stronger when you are faced with difficult times and it’s true that tough times don’t last, tough people do. You can always reset yourself to re-start, re-live your life again. I just want to share my experience so that someone out there understand that it happens to all of us. So, what do you have to do? What did I do? I started watching you tube to find motivational videos to inspire me and that’s when I came across Les Brown. The power of believe is amazing. “I can do it. It’s possible and It’s not over until I win”.

Started reading books by Anthony Robbins which was written with such clarity that I could see the mistakes that I’ve made. I am one hundred percent responsible for myself and no one else is. As long as you can accept that in your heart, you are already one step ahead. You must change yourself to become a better person, there’s no one else to be blamed, no circumstances to be blamed and it’s not timing. When you continue with the same kind of thinking, you will always get the same kind of results. Only if you change your thoughts, you can change the results. You can have the most expensive, hi-tech computer in the world but if you don’t know how to use it, it’s as good as useless to you.

You are blessed with the best computer in your head but you don’t know how to use it. Why? A simple answer to that is, you stuck with the herd of humans without purpose. This is how life should be, I must also follow the herd. Today, abnormality is normal and if you are otherwise, people will look at you as if there is something wrong with you. If you don’t have facebook, what’s app, Instagram, tik tok, twitter on your phone, you are a weird person. There’s more to life as it was original designed. Go and find it. Reset, re-start and re-live your life today, not tomorrow. Find your purpose, there is a reason for us to be here.